Things that love has taught me

Hello my little ones (now that I have quite a handful of readers, I shall refer to everyone as ‘little ones’ lol) I finally had the time to blog after quite a while! So today, I am going to blog about the several things love has taught me. Personally, I would list them all, but since I dont want this to be a long, boring post (especially coming from a 19 year old like me, what do I know, right?) but based on my personal account, I have learned quite a few important ones.

First: Love is Patient

Does this ring a bell? It Maybe the most clichรฉ of all sayings, but dear God, I cannot stress how true this is. Love will never run out, so long as you are patient. As long as you are willing to wait for the perfect time, for the perfect moment, everything will fall into place. Never rush love, rushing love will never be good. Let nature take its course.

Second: No Boundaries

Frankly, I think its stupid that they limit the idea of love for “couples” or for a “boy and a girl”. Love will be Love, and it means it is for everyone. I have met people who are not open to the idea of equality, and it saddens me a little bit on how these people can be so close minded.

Third: Love makes you do stupid things

I think its adorkable (adorable + dork) when me and my boyfriend act like idiots sometimes. But not all stupid things mean like, my boyfriend giving me a piggy back ride while walking. Sometimes it means being so engrossed in a toxic relationship. If you disregard your well-being just for the sake of love, then you have a very serious problem. Love is supposed to make you feel as if you are at your best, not at your worst.

Fourth: It should be improving. If not you, your partner.

One of the most important things I’ve ever learned is that if love can do anything, its making you want to improve yourself. Your partner should inspire you to be the best you can be, and vice versa. Its a beautiful thing to change for the better with inspiration. And what better way to get it by having your partner/lover help you?

Fifth: It’s never easy, but it’s worth it.

Probably every human being knows how tough love can be. And I don’t think Ive ever seen a couple without fights, whether its a big thing or the tiniest little things, it still stirs up stress. But the one thing I’m sure of is that even these fights or arguments happen, it doesn’t mean you just give up and leave. Nowadays, relationships are more of giving up rather than working things out. And I think that its ridiculous. You never give up on someone, no matter how hard it is. Because at the end of the day, you will realize that your love for your partner will always be the most important thing.

So thats pretty much it! I hope everyone is having a great day! Its time for my class now, so I gotta jet. Until my next blog post! ๐Ÿ’

xx, Patricia

Men are actions.

I could probably not stress this enough, ever since hearing this from a man himself. I am not saying men do not talk much, but mostly, men are all about actions.

Okay ladies, here goes: we all know that women act different from what they actually say. And there are only very few could actually “walk the walk, and talk the talk” ( I am not generalizing, This is clearly what I think. Please dont hate on me ;A; ) but so often, our true feelings come from how we express it. May it be by words or actions.

Earlier, I had a talk with a very good ( and witty ) friend on how ‘men’ are. He told me a lot of things, and I’ll quote some of the good ones:

Men are not stupid. We may think with our dicks, but that doesnt mean we dont have brains.

Listen, you have to understand that men are all about actions. We have balls, and to prove that those balls are balls of steel, we do not speak like women. We show it thru actions. If you live fucking 10 min away or 6 hours away, I will go see you just to be with you. And women think that is normal because we have to do that. But it means more than that. It means I am willing to go to where you are and waste gas or money just to see your smile, and that means everything to us.

There is a very think line between fuck,sex and making love. You dont want a guy who just fucks you and leaves. And if you are in a relationship, you dont want him to have sex with you, you want him to MAKE LOVE to you.

Let’s be honest, us women wants to be loved like how those disney princesses are loved by their princes. But the reality is not everyone gets that, and if you do find someone who treats you like you are the queen of his life, do not mess it up. Nowadays, relationship is about getting together an breaking up. But it should not end up like that. If you could work it out, then work it out. Love is about challenges and making things work. Love is never easy, and it will never be easy. But it doesnt mean it will always be hard. Loving someone is beautiful and being loved back is even more amazing. So ladies, if you do find that person; make sure to love the way you want to be loved.

Francization

Hello my lovely little readers, today I will blog about my french classes that I’m taking right now. Its not just a french language class, its something I need for getting a diploma. There are 8 levels, and right now I am at Niveau 3 (level 3).

Here are some pictures I took during classes:

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Right now, I am in class, but its more of a speaking class to enhance the vocabulary of the students learning the language. Hope everyone is having a great day!! :)

xx,Patricia

Goodbye summer!

As much as I hated the summer heat and how much it burned my skin lol (well, at least for all the tanlines I got) I must say the time for fall has slowly begun. Two days ago the temperature here in Laval dropped to at least 16 from the 24-26 we usually felt during summer. So before I savor the “sweater weather” here are some pictures from my very awesome (sarcastically meaning ‘boring’) summer!

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To be honest, im very much excited for sweater weather because basically… All my clothes are for the cold lol

 

I hope everyone had a great summer too!!

 

xx, Patricia

 

Time Travel: PH to CA

HELLO HELLO MY GORGEOUS LITTLE BABIES I DONT KNOW IF U GUYS MISSED ME BUT I SURE DID HAHA BLOGGING WILL ALWAYS BE SOMETHING PRECIOUS TO ME, (no matter how long I havent blogged lol) SO HELLO AGAIN MY LITTLE READERS <3

I cant believe I didnt blog for almost 6-7 months, sheesh. So much happened during that time and I guess it was just so crazy that I didnt even give thought to whether I should blog or not *cries*

I dont know if any of you here follow me in Twitter or Tumblr or Instagram but YES, I am not in the Philippines anymore, I am currently in Canada! *CONFETTI SHOWER ALL AROUND*
It took forever to get here and I still cant believe that I am. Its crazy, I know. I had to wait for like 2-3 years before I came here, and now Im finally here, HELL FUCKING YES!

But of course, As much as I wanted to be here I still thought of the people that I was gonna leave behind back home (NO I WILL NOT CRY.. I WILL NOT… *CRIES*) I MISS THEM LIKE CRAZY :(

So long story short, Im here in Canada and this is how I’ve been spending my time here! :)

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Just Another Pop Confession

Lately I have been watching Pretty Little Liars via ETC and I gotta tell you guys, it got me on my knees! Especially when I found out that Ezra is “A” and that Alison IS Alive! I mean seriously c’mon, those were some plot twists! WEW

Might I add that during the episode where “A” is finally revealed to be Ezra there was this song playing in the back while Aria and Ezra were at the cafe. It was soothing to me and I knew I had to find that song so I immediately got my laptop and searched for the song. At that time I only had a line of the song which was “This Isn’t Control” and guess what? It was the title of the song! Lucky one, I didnt have to search any further :D

I also found out that the song was sung by a new American Pop-Duo called “MS MR” (pronounced as “Miss Mister”) comprised by Lizzy Plapinger andย  Max Hershenow.ย  They have released their Debut Album last May 2013 titled “Secondhand Rapture” and I am lucky to have it in my iPod! Its now my current new fave as their songs remind me of the 80’s beat mixed with the pop culture of today. Not to mention their songs have been featured in Pretty Little Liars too! How awesome is that? *confetti shower!*

Album Cover of Secondhand Rapture
Album Cover of Secondhand Rapture

Tracklist:

  • Bones
  • Hurricane
  • Ash Tree Lane
  • Dark Doo Wop
  • Fantasy
  • Head Is Not Home
  • Salty Sweet
  • Think of You
  • Twenty Seven
  • BTSK
  • No Trace
  • This Isn’t Control

My personal Favorites are “Salty Sweet“, “This Isn’t Control” and “Dark Doo Wop” if you guys have time, try to check those out! Or better yet, try to purchase or Download their album on iTunes!! :D

Have a great day to everyone!! :D

xx,Patricia

Celebrating Lola’s 68th at Vikings

This post was supposed to be for August 28 (my Grandma’s birthday) but yea. Laziness got me. haha!

As I mentioned in my other posts before this, I celebrated my birthday at Vikings Luxury Buffet at the Mall of Asia.ย  After eating there, my Grandma fell in love with the food! So we decided to eat there again for her birthday :)

Ranging from Chinese to Japanese to American food. From grilled seafoods, Steaks and a wide variety of Salads you can never be hungry in this place!

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And they also gave her a small Birthday Cake! (they do this to every customer who has a birthday that’s eating there for that day) How cute is that Viking Chef ? haha!

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Happy 68th Birthday to my lola! <3ย  (grandma)

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xx,Patricia