Hello my little ones (now that I have quite a handful of readers, I shall refer to everyone as ‘little ones’ lol) I finally had the time to blog after quite a while! So today, I am going to blog about the several things love has taught me. Personally, I would list them all, but since I dont want this to be a long, boring post (especially coming from a 19 year old like me, what do I know, right?) but based on my personal account, I have learned quite a few important ones.
First: Love is Patient
Does this ring a bell? It Maybe the most cliché of all sayings, but dear God, I cannot stress how true this is. Love will never run out, so long as you are patient. As long as you are willing to wait for the perfect time, for the perfect moment, everything will fall into place. Never rush love, rushing love will never be good. Let nature take its course.
Second: No Boundaries
Frankly, I think its stupid that they limit the idea of love for “couples” or for a “boy and a girl”. Love will be Love, and it means it is for everyone. I have met people who are not open to the idea of equality, and it saddens me a little bit on how these people can be so close minded.
Third: Love makes you do stupid things
I think its adorkable (adorable + dork) when me and my boyfriend act like idiots sometimes. But not all stupid things mean like, my boyfriend giving me a piggy back ride while walking. Sometimes it means being so engrossed in a toxic relationship. If you disregard your well-being just for the sake of love, then you have a very serious problem. Love is supposed to make you feel as if you are at your best, not at your worst.
Fourth: It should be improving. If not you, your partner.
One of the most important things I’ve ever learned is that if love can do anything, its making you want to improve yourself. Your partner should inspire you to be the best you can be, and vice versa. Its a beautiful thing to change for the better with inspiration. And what better way to get it by having your partner/lover help you?
Fifth: It’s never easy, but it’s worth it.
Probably every human being knows how tough love can be. And I don’t think Ive ever seen a couple without fights, whether its a big thing or the tiniest little things, it still stirs up stress. But the one thing I’m sure of is that even these fights or arguments happen, it doesn’t mean you just give up and leave. Nowadays, relationships are more of giving up rather than working things out. And I think that its ridiculous. You never give up on someone, no matter how hard it is. Because at the end of the day, you will realize that your love for your partner will always be the most important thing.
So thats pretty much it! I hope everyone is having a great day! Its time for my class now, so I gotta jet. Until my next blog post! 💁